Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Day 46 – Stopping my resistance to my self-commitment to writing and my process of change

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to use the excuse and justification that 'I am not sure about the memories that I have written about' to not complete my DIP assignment. 



I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to see, realize, and understand that resistance isn’t about being unsure of something – resistance is a preprogrammed defense mechanism of the mind that activates when we are faced with a point of change.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to 'doubt' whether my memories are correct, and to within that, I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear that I may be writing a bunch of made-up bullshit and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to connect the idea that 'I may be writing a bunch of made-up bullshit' to my fear of writing.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to connect the emotional reaction of 'fear of writing self forgive forgiveness' to the idea that I am not able to correctly go through or pull-up memories so as to write about them effectively.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to sabotage my process of change by participating in thoughts, feelings, emotions, fears and ideas that I am not able to write about, remember, recount, and express effectively my preprogrammed nature so as to be able to clearly be able to identify what it is that I need to stop.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to hide from myself by hiding memories away where I seemingly cannot find them or remember them correctly and to within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I cannot remember things correctly and therefore cannot self-forgive correctly.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I am not equal as life force with the same exact potential to transcend my mind that every other being has, and then within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from myself and others that are 'effectively' participating in their process because 'apparently I don’t have it in me do be able to do so'



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that 'I don't have what it takes' as others do, in their process, because I see, realize, and understand that 'having what it takes' is a mind-consciousness system design that only applies when I live as my mind within whatever design I have been given and that I merely need to stand, breathe, and self-forgive to change and be able to stand one and equal with life.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the idea that I can 'find' self-discipline, as if I am waiting for it to happen to me or making excuses for not manifesting the self discipline because within this justification I am placing self-discipline outside of myself, in separation of myself, and giving myself what I need to resist change and remain enslaved to my mind - where it is that I 'feel' so comfortable.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the desire to 'feel at ease and comfortable' not realizing that if this is my desire, then that means that this is not how I am existing now in every moment because why would I desire something that I already have? And within that, I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I have only achieve this 'at ease and comfortable feeling' by participating in certain activities instead of living 'at ease and comfortable' as myself in every moment of breath.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the idea that 'I am not going to be able to make this process in this life, and in this current circumstance wherein I work full-time and have a wife and kids to take care of'. And within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the idea that 'I will just wait for the other Destonians to gradually redirect reality so as to make things 'easier' such as the introduction of the BIG of which I may even be a beneficiary one day in the 'future' wherein I will be able to complete my process years from now'.



I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to give to myself the time and discipline required to participate in my process as consistently as possible considering my actual circumstances because I have been accepting and allowing a myriad of excuses and justifications to trump my efforts when all the while the self-discipline and the time that I need - I merely need give to myself through self-forgiveness, breathing and corrective application.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define writing self-forgiveness as work and then to charge it negatively and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to use this justification to do some other activity that I have placed in the category of 'emotion release' or 'relaxation' because of my need to participate in these actives after being at work all day.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed 'work' to be charged negatively and to believe that it is emotionally and energetically draining and therefore, when I am off work, I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to constantly be looking for those 'positively' charged activities to participate in.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to create and participate in polarity cycles between work and off-work, rather than to remain here equal and one in breath no matter what activity that I participate in, always the same and always breathing, and within the realization that all activities are in fact equal and one and should only be participated in if they are best for all and also what is indeed to do to survive in this system how it is right now and to be as self-responsible and self-directed as much as possible in every moment.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the idea/mind-set of the 'average' consumerist being wherein it is normal to need to 'release' after a long day of 'hard-work' wherein I am not 'living life to the fullest' if after 'grueling' work day only to come home and write.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not write about the emotional drain that work does, in fact, have on me in my current walk – as of now, as it does require a lot of emotional energy to deal with all the different 'personalities' and complete all the tasks required to be 'successful' at what I do and to therefore make money.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to ignore the swath of material that I have to write about to stabilize myself at work so as to create myself as stable at work with no emotional energy drain so that when I come home I am one and equal and walking in breath as if I had been 'doing what I want all day' – and within that I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to see, realize, and understand that even if I had been doing 'what I want' all day' I still would not be emotionally stable as emotional stability does not come from doing what I want.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to become 'confused' with the subject matter at-hand regarding self-forgiveness, and to within that use that excuse and justification to not participate in self-forgiveness as much as I could when and as I define myself as confused..



I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to just stop and slow down and breathe when and as I feel confused about how to write out self-forgives, at times. And within that I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to write my self forgiveness breath by breath in every moment of breath, here – and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to write a lot of my self forgiveness in a reactive mode.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear what others think of my writing and that others may think that I am not writing well or writing in a confusing way and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to use this fear of what others think of my writing as a justification to not write at times, and to not write about specific topics where this 'fear' is more accentuated.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the thought that 'others may think that I am not writing clearly and that I should not write, therefore about whatever particular topic may be 'causing' this fear. ' And within that, I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to connect the emotional reaction of fear to the thoughts that 'others may be able to identify that I don’t 'know' what I am doing or talking about'. And within that I have accepted and allowed myself to sabotage my process with fears of what other people think.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see, realize, and understand that this fear of 'what other people think of mywritings and that others may be able to identify me as not understanding the material' is a form of self-sabotage wherein I am making justifications and excuses to stop my process based on what I think other people think, which is total separation.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to ignore the realization that what other people think or perceive my abilities in self forgiveness is irrelevant and that even if I am 'confused', the only way to gain clarity is to participate in my process consistently.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I am too tired to write when I still have energy to participate in hobbies, and past-times.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to react to thoughts that I am too tired to write, instead of breathing and remaining here, stopping the thoughts and breathing through them until I am clear and then directing myself to write if it is what I need to to at that time to be consistent.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that this process is too arduous and too difficult for me to do and therefore, within that, I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to 'give-up' on myself.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to ignore the realization that whatever the most 'awesome' destonian can do, I can do also, because anyone who walks and breathes and participates effectively in his/her process is doing so as the breath, as life-force, as the physical – all of which I am equally.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to 'look-up to other destonians' in separation of myself, as if they are separate than me and not equal and one. And within that, I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to direct myself equal and one with other destonians because I have not seen myself that way which is a complete find-fuck. And within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to use this since of 'inferiority' as excuse and justification to not participate effectively in my process.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to get all 'stressed out' with work to the extent that I feel I need to do 'fun stuff' instead of slow down, breathe, and write. And within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not address the point of work more thoroughly even though, ironically, I have been able to reduce my stress at work significantly with prior self-forgiveness; however, there is obviously still more work to be done here.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define various activities as fun and boring in separation of myself, and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to be pulled back and forth in positive and negative polarity cycles which has the result of sabotaging my time to get things done that I need to get done and keeping myself in separation – in my mind, and not here as the physical, in breath.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in mind-chatter and dialog/backchat wherein my mind races with various excuses and emotional reactions as to why I cannot participate more effectively in my process, instead of just stopping all that bullshit, and breathing as soon as I see myself doing this.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to ignore the realization that all I need to do is slow-down and breath and that I am not really bored, and I don’t really need to do this or that in order to feel good or have fun – rather what I need to do is breath and slow down until I am here with a clear mind, and then direct myself to do what is best for all and is self-responsible in every moment.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to neglect my self-responsibility by participating in my mind and believing and reacting to my own bullshit instead of being here and breathing equal and one with my body and the physical and then directing myself in breath.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the idea that I do not have enough 'time' to write out correctly my self-forgiveness and self-exploration and self-commitment statements and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to connect the emotional experience of fear to the idea that I have not the time to write out correctly my self forgiveness and therefore I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to react in fear to writing thorough self forgiveness.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate and feed my reactiveness by participating in the thoughts, feelings, and emotions that come up, on any particular topic, instead of stopping those thoughts, feelings, and emotions as soon as I see that I am going into them and then breathing until I am stable again.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see, realize, and understand that the reason why I am not able to participate in my process more effectively is because I have accepted and allowed myself to be emotionally reactive and controlled by my mind.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to ignore the realization that I am the directive 'force' in my existence, not my mind – and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear stopping my mind.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see, realize, and understand that all the excuses and justifications are used only to find, seek, and participate in experience that produce and energetic reaction in my mind which makes me feel good and feel like I am really living – and these justifications are used to resist change and transcending my program.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to ignore the realization that I am preprogrammed to seek, find, and create reactions, excuses, and emotional experiences all to form a 'resistance' to change and to transcending my program; and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to ignore the realization that 'change' will seem hard and boring at first because that is my preprogrammed reaction to stay mind-controlled and mind-possess where everything that keeps me in this virtual-mind reality is so much more 'fun' and easy.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to remain enslaved to my mind because it is easier that way than it is to breath and stop my backchat.



More self-forgiveness on this and self-corrective/commitment statements to follow...

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