Tuesday, August 13, 2013

JTL Day 50 – Day 3 of 21 days of Writing Every Day – Boredom, fun, living life, and giving-in in that critical moment.

I still struggle with boredom. I go throughout my day with the intent to just be here and breathe and do what is practical and then inevitably a moment comes where boredom seems to strike and then I am faced with some 'temptation' to do something more 'exciting'. I actually begin looking for some form of exciting thing to do just to get some relief from this boredom.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I cannot be 'happy' just being here and breathing throughout my day while I take care of my personal responsibilities.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define 'happiness' as being stimulated and having fun in separation of myself here as life, as the physical which is here, stable, and constant regardless of 'outside' conditions and stimulus.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define 'fun' as doing things that are 'stimulating' such as drinking, or social gatherings, or going out, or eating, or reading cool topics, or having interesting conversations, or smoking something all in separation of myself here as life as the physical.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to play games with myself by defining activities as 'fun' or 'boring' based upon the amount of energetic charge that I have associated with various activities based upon how I have defined various activities in relationship to myself, and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define my 'happiness' in relationship to how many 'fun' things' I do in a given day.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the backchat that 'I am bored and therefore unhappy and therefore need to do something fun', and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to go into resistance towards activities that I have defined as 'boring' until I finally 'break', at that critical moment, and accept and allow myself to 'give-in' and participate in something that either aids in my procrastination of responsibilities or aids in my participation in things that I have already spoken self-forgiveness on and made an agreement with myself to stop because it is an abusive activity and not best for all.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to let 'little things' in at 'small amounts' that I have already made the self-agreement to stop – all because I have participated in my backchat that 'I am bored because I am not doing anything that is fun'.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the idea that my life needs to be 'fun' – the idea perpetuated by the media and those who also have fallen for this load of crap that speak this out load in my presence.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see, realize, and understand that my pursuit of 'fun' and 'happiness' is of self interest and not best for all life.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see, realize, and understand that this pursuit of 'fun' and 'happiness' shows to me that I am living the opposite polarity of 'bored' and 'unhappy'.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to play energy games which create energy by going back and forth from 'fun' to 'boring' from 'happy' to 'sad' which is a form of self-sabotage as I get bounced around like a ping-pong ball abdicating myself to the energy needs of my mind and not being here as the directive principle of my life.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to 'give-in', to this self-created need for fun and to therefore be happy, in those moments where 'boredom' and therefore 'unhappiness' compound to a point where 'I just can't take it anymore'.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to measure my life with the amount of energetic-experiences that I can have.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to see others as having more fun or more happiness based on the 'exciting' lives that they are presenting on the outside, and within that, I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fuck with myself with the picture that I self-create in my mind of others that are 'really living' and having 'fun' that I compare to my apparent 'boring' reality – and within that I forgive myself that I use that as justification to accept allow myself to 'slip' on various points that I have already made a self-agreement on to stop, just so that I can have some 'fun' too.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see, realize, and understand that all that is required for me to live my life to the 'fullest' is to simply be here within and as the breath – as the physical, not being pulled back-and-forth from one polarity to the other in pursuit of an energetic experience to make my life for fun and exciting – because within that, I see, realize, and understand that I am in -fact never going to achieve the 'fun' life when I have defined 'fun' as the pursuit of energy which always dissipates and therefore my pursuit of fun and happiness guarantees my boredom and unhappiness.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to guarantee my 'boredom' and my 'unhappiness' within my pursuit of 'happiness' and 'fun' because 'happiness' and 'fun' when based on energy and energetic experiences will always end and leave me where I started.



To be continued...

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