Sunday, January 20, 2013

Day 26 - Self Forgivness on Outburst of Anger


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to become angry at the fact that I received emails of orders that I did not know why they were generated and no one would let me know.

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear that these orders might actually cost me money, and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear losing money.

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the thought that ‘I have a right to break-down into an emotional outburst of anger because the potential ‘harm to me’ that could come from the situation was too great for me to bear’.

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that there is only ‘so much adversity that I can bear’ and beyond that I therefore allow myself to break down into an emotional basket-case.

 

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to see, realize, and understand that if there is only so much that I can bear, then I am in fact living as multiple personalities that come about depending on the external stimulus in my reality and completely subject to my environmental conditions, and I am not living therefore as the directive principle of me as oneness and equality as stability in every breath.

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe, in that moment, that I would not be able to handle the unresolved possibility of having orders, that I did not generate, cost me money, over the weekend, and that because I could not handle it and ‘should not have to handle it’ I chose to allow myself to break-down into an emotional outburst of anger and rage.

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to associate the emotional reaction of fear to the possibility of my ‘losing’ money because of orders that I did not place; and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear my own fear.

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to associate the emotion of ‘anger’ at the fact that I received a bunch of orders for items that I did not place and was not notified as to why and no one answered the phone when I called to ask.

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not stop myself and breath in the very moment that I saw myself going into fear and anger – in other words, I actually made the choice to accept and allow myself to go into emotional reactions of fear and anger; and within this I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the emotional reactions of fear and anger.

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to connect the emotional reaction of anger to the thought that ‘I should have been notified as to why I was getting these mysterious orders’.

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to associate the emotion of anger towards the individual at this manufacturer because she was not doing what I would think is the appropriate thing in this situation which is to call me and let me know what is going on; and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allow myself to use the fact that she apparently violated my personal ethics code as a reason for me to become angry and act out in rage, yelling ‘fuck this’ and ‘what the fuck’

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from this person and from others by imposing my ‘code of ethics’ upon her as a point of pride and arrogance within the fact that I saw her as ‘less than me’ because she did not behave within my pre-defined code, and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see, realize, and understand that my emotional outburst was a way of my acting out my feeling of ‘superiority’ to her.

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel, in that moment because of the out-play of the situation, ‘superior’ to the woman who sent me these mysterious orders, and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to act out in anger as a way to express my wrath upon her as being my inferior.

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the polarity manifestation of the mind of ‘superiority’ and ‘inferiority’, and within that I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to see, realize, and understand that my feeling of ‘superiority’ because of my having a ‘code of ethics’ that is ‘so righteous’ is rooted in an actual belief/feeling of inferiority.

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the emotional construct of inferiority, and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to cover that with ‘self-righteous’ acts and beliefs instead of addressing the feeling of inferiority head-on with self-forgiveness and corrective application.

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to go into an emotional outburst of rage and anger even though it will do nothing to resolve the situation at all, and even though I knew this at the time and willingly chose to accept and allow myself to react.

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear losing control of my environment within the possibility of ‘losing money’ against my will and against all my efforts.

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to, because of my participation in the feeling of losing control, go into the emotional reaction of fear and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the thought that I am not able to handle ‘potentially losing money’ for an entire 2 days, over the weekend, without knowing what the outcome will be.

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to react in anger to this event instead of remaining here in and as the breath in every moment.

 

To be continued…

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